Friends…Happy New Year !!!

To all my friends and followers, wish you all a great Happy New Year…May this 2017 give you all the happiness to you and your family. Let this New Year give you all the strength and courage to win over your vices and enhance your virtues. Wish you have a year even better than the best and put smiles on the faces of everyone you come across.

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As I think about our friendship and how happy it has made me, I want to wish you happiness in the year to come.Knowing you has been a master class in true friendship. During the New Year, I hope to emulate your love and warmth. Wishing you a very Happy New Year !!!

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Again Wishing you all good things on this New Year!
Have fun, joy, peace, love, care, luck and success ahead!
Happy New Year Greetings to All my Friends!

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Happy Friendship Day !!

I can’t give Solutions to all of life’s problem, but I can listen to you, & together we’ll search for an answer. I can’t keep your feet from stumbling, I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it & not fall. I can’t keep your heart from breaking or hurting, but I can cry with you & help you smile again. I can’t promise you happiness always but I can only share with you what life offers & be your.
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Hello Every One….I know all are busy in their busy life schedule. But today I must say that I miss my friends, Some are very close some are close and some are you know, Any way I wish them all the very best, God always bless them. I know that friendship is a bond that never ends, but how many people following that? Now a days friendship means face book, watts app. I miss my old days. I miss them.

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A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.

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A Real Friend Steps In When The Rest Of The World Steps Out. Our most intimate friend is not he to whom we show the worst, but the best of our nature.

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How to Motivate a Friend

Your friends should motivate and inspire you. Your circle should be well rounded and supportive. Keep it tight. Quality over quantity, always.

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sometimes it’s important to first address the long list of things to do. What won’t work when it comes to motivating a friend? Prying, nagging, begging, bartering, manipulating, criticizing and shaming. At the very least remember this one: Don’t offer advice unless you are asked. Trust us! If your friend has asked for help, chances are they have already recognized that you know what’s what when it comes to all things health and fitness related.

You might not be able to be there in the morning to get them out of bed for that early Cross Fit session or be allowed – at least in some social circles – to slap the bagel out of their hand, but sometimes just lending a little support can go a long way. Be there when they need help, have them over for a healthy dinner (and be sure to offer up the recipe!) or set up a gym date – whatever it takes to show them your unfailing support!

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Once your friend has shown an interest in health and fitness, it’s time for you to subtly give advice. But rather than just serve as their fountain of knowledge, steer them to resources (such as Mark’s Daily Apple) that they can access on their own. There are plenty of health and fitness blogs and resources out there, some more helpful than others, but try to help guide them towards those that will help them understand the importance of living a healthy lifestyle and how to best approach the task.

While you can certainly do your part to help your friend become a fitness aficionado, the reality is, you can’t do it alone. Instead, the onus is on them to make the decision to be healthy, to decide how to implement a fitness and diet regimen that works for them. In this case, while your support and advice is certainly welcome, this one, quite simply, just isn’t about you!

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Your friend did it – they turned their life around, met a fitness goal, or mastered a new activity. Whatever the measure, be sure to celebrate the success. It doesn’t have to mean a big gift, a blow-out-bash or some other material token – you’ll find that a true friend can celebrate just by providing a few words of encouragement. Especially when those words are coming from the very fitness guru who has been there since day one.

Real Friends and Fake Friends

A real friend and fake friend can be hard to distinguish, but they are very different! Fake friends might as well be scum of the Earth for all the support they will give you. Friendship is one of the best aspects of life. That said, certain friends are certainly much better than others. Real friends are people you can go to for anything. You know they will always be on your side, through thick and thin. Use this guide to figure out if your friends are your real friends!

1. Support you in all your achieve

A real best friend will encourage you with anything that you try! Whether it be taking up square dancing, or changing your career path, a real friend will be there every step of the way.

2. Forgive you for anything

Sometimes you royally screw up. With fake friends, a mistake can cost you a friendship. Real friends will know that sometimes you’ll mess up. They will forgive you because they value your friendship more than your (temporary) mistake.

3. Love your dorky personality

We all have those dorky things we do on a regular basis. A real friend loves those things! In fact, if they are a true real friend they just might join in with you!

 

4. Always have your back

It isn’t a matter of who is on the other side, what the issue is, or if you’re in the wrong – a real friend will stand by you no matter what. They always are on your side and will fight for you with no questions asked. That’s just what a real friend does!

5. Let you explore your interests !!

As we grow, we discover new interests, and sometimes they seem very unlike ourselves! Fake friends will make fun of you and tell you to stick to the status quo. “cue High School Musical song” A real friend will let you do your thing and encourage you to explore this new part of yourself.

6. Know all your little quirks

We all have little quirks about ourselves (IE: we are cranky in the morning, we get flirtatious when drunk, we eat too many dinner rolls, etc.) that only our true friends know about. No one else knows you quite like your real friends. The fact that they notice those little quirks about you is a good sign!

7. They constantly keep in contact

Fake friends will only contact you when they need something or want to know some juicy gossip. Real friends will contact you wherever and whenever because they are always interested in what’s going on in your life. They don’t have to know the latest gossip about your relationship. They might just want to know what you had for lunch today.

8. They keep your secrets

If you can trust anyone to not gossip around town about your dark little secrets, it’s your real friends. Fake friends will treat your secrets like it’s nothing sacred. A real friend values your confidence, and will not tell anyone.

9. Don’t have to dress to impress

If you have to put on really nice clothes, do your hair, and make sure that you smell nice just to hang out – then you know you have fake friends. A true friend will let you come over in sweatpants with unwashed hair. The worst they might do is make a joke, but they won’t really care at all. They just want to spend time with you. Real friendship is measured in how gross you can look when you hang out!

10. They make time for you

It doesn’t matter if they only have an hour between work and their pottery class, a real friend will let you come over for a drink any time. It isn’t a matter of time, it’s a matter of they want to spend time with you, rather than having time to themselves.

11. Always have a shoulder to cry on

A big difference between real and fake friends is how they deal with your ups and downs. If you’re feeling down, a fake friend will pat you awkwardly on the shoulder and try to change the subject. Your real friends will wrap you in their arms and listen to you blubber all night, if you want them to. Real friends are there for you, whether you’re happy or sad.

If you’re trying to decide whether your friends are genuine or not, hopefully this guide helped you decipher which kind of friends you surround yourself with! It’s time to get real.

A friendship Story !!

Once upon a time, there were 2 friends “Tuan” and “Tuin”. they were very close friends. They go to school together, eat together, play together. On one fine Sunday, both of their parents were out. so Tuan visited Tuin’s house and they planned to party as school was off and parents were out. They made all the planning for the party and decided to prepare “Pitha” for the main course. Pitha is an Indian traditional food.

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Around 12 pm both went to the market for purchasing the grocery. They thought of taking a short-cut and so entered the forest. And they were supposed to pick sticks and logs for creating the fire, that was also the reason for entering the jungle. While picking sticks, they heard a strange sound. It was the roaring sound of the tiger. He was the only tiger of the jungle and the villagers were very afraid of it. They used to call the tiger as “Tiger Uncle”. Tiger Uncle roared at Tuan and Tuin very furiously. He then shouted that I’m going to kill and eat both of you. I’m very hungry. Tuan and Tuin both stated crying.

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Tuan was very clever and suddenly an idea st-rucked his mind. He said to the tiger that, please don’t kill us now. We are making a party and we are going to prepare Pitha. Wouldn’t you like to eat those tasty pithas and after finishing pitha you can kill us. And moreover it will be our previlage if you come to our house as chief guest. Tiger Uncle liked the idea. He thought that I’ll be the chief guest and would get more attention. I would eat those tasty pithas and finally can eat these boys. He then said yes I agree to your plan. I’ll be at your home around 2 pm. And Tiger Uncle left. Tuan and Tuin then both finished their purchasing and returned back to home.
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They started preparing Pitha. Tuan prepared the first pitha Tuin ate that and Tuin made the second pitha and Tuan ate that. Like that they finished eating all the pithas. Them suddenly Tuin shouted, Oh God, we have finished all the pithas, now what we will offer Tiger Uncle? Tuan said, chill Tuin, don’t worry, today we will teach Tiger Uncle a lesson. He said lets go the the backyard, he then asked Tuin to bring a mat. Tuan placed the mat on the well and said we will ask Tiger Uncle to seat on it and when he will seat, he will fell into the well. Tuin was very happy with the plan.

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Then finally, Tiger Uncle came top their house. Tuan then invited tiger inside the house and said, there is a power cut and it’s too hot inside, lets go to the backyard and seat. We have arranged a very special place for you. Tiger Uncle was very happy and went with then to the backyard. They reached near the well, then Tuan said Tiger Uncle you please take your seat on the mat, we will serve you. Then when Tiger Uncle sat on the mat, he immediately fell into the well. Tuan and Tuin shouted very happily as they trapped the furious tiger.

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They ran outside the house and called the villagers ans said what all happened. Villagers were very happy with the boy’s brave act. Villagers were also very happy as the man eater tiger was traped, they congratulated both the boys and left. The next day, the zoo keeper came and took the Tiger, the Chief Minister came and awarded Tuan and Tuin for their bravery and friendship. Tuan and Tuin became very popular, their parents were also very happy. Villagers created a park on Tuan and Tuin’s name. Till now people uses to give examples of Tuan and Tuin for their friendship and bravery.

By Nepoleon

Friendship – How to make new friends !!

Making new friends can be difficult but also rewarding. Life events, such as moving to another neighborhood, starting a new job or having a baby, can isolate us from our former support group and make developing new friendships more important than ever. Some tips can help to make new friends over time.

Tips on Meeting People and Building Friendships

Good friendships improve all aspects of your life, providing comfort and joy, strengthening your health, providing companionship, and preventing loneliness and isolation. As we age, many of us struggle to make new friends or maintain old friendships. Work, family, and other commitments can all get in the way. While making and keeping friends requires effort, it’s an investment that will make your life richer and more pleasurable. Whatever your age or circumstances, it’s never too late to make new friends or reconnect with old ones.

Friendships are an important part of life, but many of us find it difficult to find, make or keep friends. Life events, such as moving to another neighborhood, starting a job or having a baby, can isolate us from our former support group and make forging new friendships more important than ever. In other cases, shyness or poor social skills can prevent us from taking the first step in forming a friendship. This article offers practical suggestions that may help you to expand your social circle or reinforce the relationships you already have.

You may want friendship, but what kind of friend would you make? Factors to consider include:

Attitudes to others – we can drive potential friends away by demanding they share our attitudes, beliefs or behaviors. If you accept that other people have a right to be different from you, then you open yourself up to the possibility of experiencing relationships that bring a fresh perspective to your life.

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Treatment of other people – think about how you like to be treated, then offer the same to the people in your life.

Don’t expect instant results – good friends aren’t made overnight. Sharing your deepest secrets in one night won’t necessarily create a close friendship. It may even drive the other person away. Take it slowly. Divulge ‘safe’ secrets first, and allow the relationship to hold some weight before you share the meatier issues in your life.

Curb the urge to criticize – constantly griping about the failures and weaknesses of other people can make your listener feel wary of you. How do they know you aren’t complaining about their flaws to other friends?

Don’t gossip – potential friends aren’t going to trust you if you constantly gossip to them about the trials and tribulations of other people in your life.

Don’t compromise yourself – each one of us has standards of morality and behavior. Don’t allow yourself to compromise yourself for the sake of ‘fitting in’ with a group.

Sometimes it can be difficult to differentiate between real friends and mere acquaintances::

An acquaintance is someone you exchange small talk with as you go about your day, trade jokes or insights with online, or chat about sports with in a bar. While most of these relationships will never progress beyond an acquaintance level, with effort, real friendships can blossom from online contacts, people you meet on social media sites, or from neighborhood or work acquaintances.

A friend is someone who shares a deeper level of interaction or communication with you; he or she is someone you can really connect with, face-to-face. A friend is someone you feel comfortable sharing your feelings with, someone who’ll listen to you without judging you or telling you how you should think or feel. As friendship works both ways, a friend is also someone you feel comfortable supporting and accepting, and someone with whom you share a bond of trust and loyalty.

Things to remember

Life events, such as moving to another neighborhood, starting a job or having a baby, can isolate us from our former support group and make forging new friendships more important than ever.

Participate in work social functions, join a hobby group or volunteer for charity work.

Friendships need love, time, attention and trust if they are to survive.

Thanks…

Nepoleon